Fair

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Talk about fair . Today I am going to share some of my opinion about being fair to people around us . It is not about anything happen in my life but it is just something that i really confuse sometimes . So i am going to share some of my opinions .

I love freedom doesn't mean i don't listen to any advices . The freedom in my life means i need sometime to be alone . I can go out all by myself to anywhere and hang out alone or shop alone . I don't mind . By doing that i can relax my mind and feel free . I love that feel but not to forget i love it too when I am hanging out with my friends or my lover . What is the differences between friends and lover?

Friends and lover are important to me after my family . I don't hope one day I'll be far from my friends just because of my lover or far from my lover just because of my friends .

True friends/Best friends are the one who are willing to help you after your family . They are the best listeners after your family . They never fail to make you happy while you are sad . Most importantly they will NEVER leave you no matter what happens because true friends will remain as friends forever . We might have some arguements in this friendship but i believe true friends will always forgive you no matter what you do to hurt them . Right? Backstabbing is the most dangerous things between friendship . Once you backstab your friends you all might have a deep deep cut in the heart that might cause the "hate" feelings to occur .

While for true lover . They are your close partner in your life . Almost the same as your true friends . They will make you happy too , BUT the scariest part is..today they might do alot of things for you to show how much they sacrifice to love you but tomorrow they will try to kill you because they hate you after arguements . I don't believe the "forever" word because it is only a word that come out from the person mouth . I am not encouraging you all to don't believe your partner saying that he/she love you forever or wants to be with you forever but lets think it in the other way . Even a married couple can divorce so what else can we say about only "in a relationship" ?

Being fair to lover and friends its a hard job for humans . If you go out with your friends your lover will think that you did not accompany him/her enough while if you go out with your lover your friends might think that you got lover forget friends . So .. how to be fair??

To any person who is in a relationship ,
I believe that you will jealous whenever your bf/gf go out with his/her friends right ? What i wanted to say is .. just give them some freedom to go out . It's no use controlling your bf/gf all the time . They will feel like they are living in a cage . Humans need freedoms . I don't believe there is someone in the world who dont love some freedom . About jealousy . Don't ever jealous whatever things that your bf/gf do . Jealous too much = annoying ! I was a person who love to jealous towards whatever thing my bf do . But slowly slowly im learning to control myself and our relationship got better . Tolerates and trusts are the most important things in a relationship . If you trust your bf/gf and tolerate with him/her i believe relationship may last long . Following your bf/gf all the time its a NO NO too . Why ? Let me tell you why .. Don't you feel like you looks more like a bodyguard for your partner more than lover ?? > < Let them free.. be fair towards them . They should have some time with their friends too right ? =) But don't too over la.... Go out all the time till forget your partner is too much too =|

To any friends who is in this condition ,
Don't judge your friends who is in a relationship too fast by saying they got lover forget friends . They might have the problem like what i stated above . Is not they wanted to stay away from you all but people who is in a relationship will have to care about both side people's feelings . Is not easy . Be more considerate won't make you lose a friend right ? =) Don't straight away ignore them when they already in a relationship . You won't know that you will hurt them by doing that . They may hang out will you all less than bfore they are in a relationship but it doesn't mean they dont care at all alright ?

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Whatever things that happen in life always have they way to solve it . So i wish that i will learn to solve all the problems in my life calmly so that i won't hurt anyone's feeling . To all my friends and my lover - I love you all . I love every single on of you and will appreciate you all . You guys are always in my mind . I will never forget all of you unless i nyanyuk ady lor har =P hehehehe

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P/S- All this are just my opinions so no offence yaa :) ♥